Dating divorced man introduce children
However, if your man and his kids include you and make you feel welcome, you may not see his grown children as a barrier to the relationship.
As such, do not discipline his kids, tell them what to do or expect them to open up to you the way they would with their mom.
His children might have a strong loyalty to their mother and make you feel like an intruder or worry that you will push them away, suggests sociologist Dr. Stewart in “Brave New Stepfamilies.” Assure them that you only want to be their dad's friend and you welcome his involvement in their lives. Although you may want to spend every waking minute together, it's important for him to have his dad time with the kids and for you to encourage him to have that space.
Even if you’re thrilled about the prospect of meeting them, be aware that you need to be the one to fit into their lives, not the other way around.
Dating a divorced man with children will mean joining a new family, so make sure you’re ready for what that could entail.
They may need to speak often about their children and arrangements for care.